About

Pittsburgh | 30 years | she/her | 5’7″ | 171cm

I’m a lover at heart. A hot date. A playful soul. An adventurer. Occasional arm candy. I escaped academia with multiple degrees. In essences. I’m a sweetheart full of filthy fantasies. Moms love me.

Lovers often say that I make them feel comfortable and calm. Let me take care of you, and you can take care of me.

I love to learn, and I know you have something to teach me. I want to know every inch of your body & mind, my eyes moving without judgement, just witnessing you in all your imperfect humanity. Nothing is more sexy than being open with each other.

You’re sure to love me if you’re any one of these:

➵ you’re divorced and need a break from the insanity of dating
➵ you’ve never quite fit in, sometimes even in places you had success
➵ you enjoy art, travel, dancing, or have some other passion waiting to be expressed
➵ you’re a little nerdy (me too!)
➵ you love to plan ahead
➵ you have a disability & you’re tired of people infantilizing you
➵ you have a very specific fantasy and had trouble finding someone accepting
➵ you’re a couple tired of searching for your unicorn
➵ you’re in profession that requires extra discretion

Take a chance. What is holding you back? Let it go. Send me that message you’ve been sitting on.

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FAQ

What's included?

My rate covers our time together. Together, we can mutually decide how we’d like to spend that time in a fun, safe, flirty manner! Think of me as your professional girlfriend, your supporter, partner in crime, and smiling face. If you have more specific questions, please book a coffee or meal date and we can talk everything through.

How do I pay?

Cash is king! I prefer when lovers greet me with a hug and a silly birthday card with my rate inside. I do not have any form of digital payment.

What do you like to eat/do/wear?

Dining: My favorites are seafood, Asian cuisines, desserts. I don’t eat much spicy food. That said, I’m not picky eater and would love to try your favorite dish. Food doesn’t have to be expensive; just delicious.

Drink: I don’t drink alcohol, but I’m no prude and don’t mind if use substances in moderation! My favorite drinks are ginger ale, coconut water, tea, and whatever surprise mocktail the bartender whips up.

Clothing: I always dress appropriately to match our outing. I am happy to try and accommodate outfit requests if they’re sent in advance, or if you provide the outfit in my size!

Activities: I love all kinds of adventures, from a quiet night in to a strange event! I’ve been on dates that included a rodeo, a rave, a book store, a long hike, a museum, a sea turtle sanctuary, an NFL game, a casino blackjack table, and a picnic in the park. I have a particular soft spot for magic shows, dancing, and being introduced to whatever you love to do! I’m also on a personal quest to attend all the major professional sporting events, including racing, boxing, NBA, golf, poker, and tennis.

I require additional discretion. Can that be accommodated?

Yes, I am happy to talk through your privacy concerns. I provide a variety of screening options to accommodate different needs. Ask if you’d like to use an encrypted messaging platform. If you tell me a bit of the specifics about your risk model (family, professional life, stigma, small town life, legal concerns, or something else), I’m happy to work together to make a concrete plan that provides peace of mind for both of us.

Do you travel?

I love being a travel buddy for my favorite lovers, spending a long weekend together. I tour very occasionally, but am unlikely to take a FMTY request from someone I don’t know. Pittsburgh has my heart <3

Why do I have to provide my information?

For my safety and yours, I require either basic personal information or a public coffee/lunch date to get to know each other. I keep your information private, and would never dream of contacting your phone or address without explicit permission.

Take a chance. What is holding you back? Let it go. Send me that message you’ve been sitting on.

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